How To Give Our Children The Gifts That Matter

Kids in the United States are one of the unhappiest in the world (Ranked 2 unhappiest. UK takes 1st place. UNICEF child well-being research)

Boys now spend 44 hours in front of a TV, smartphone or computer for every half hour in conversation with their fathers. (The Guardian) 

"Something is a amiss. We need to sit up, pay attention, and  raise our children differently."

Dr.  Shefali Tsabary

Clinical Psychologist & 

Best Selling Author

How to step out of the go-go-go lifestyle and have fun while doing it.

• The average 10-year-old owns 238 toys but plays with just 12 daily (The Telegraph).  

•  It costs an average of $10/square foot to store things in your home (Statistics Of Clutter).  

• We spend 10 minutes every day looking for lost items (phones, keys, documents, and glasses top the list). On average we lose up to 9 items every day (The Daily Mail)

Stuff. Its everywhere. Many of us are stuck in the consumer focused mentality. We don't  realize the deep impact this STUFF has on our lives.


If you have you ever felt that your life is stuck in go-go-go mode, then this post is for you.   

Hint: It's easy and its fun ...stay tuned for the fun challenge at the end of this post

The 1 thing you need to know before moving house.

As the golden rays of the morning sun gently spill into the dark sky, I sit on my porch  watching the earth wake up.  

The dark shades slowly fade into the beautiful rich orange hues and the blue sky emerges. The fresh air is mesmerizing, the energy invigorating. I feel restfully alert as I listen to the sounds of the birds, ready to take on the day. 

I didn't know much about spaces, energies, or structures when we were looking to buy a house. We had moved a few times and  I had  figured out the morning sun is something I wanted to feel all the way through the house. 

The stress of buying a new house
The home buying process is certainly not an easy one. Way high up on the stress and anxiety scale, when buying a  home, there are a gazillion things to consider - budget, school district, neighbors, resale, location, style. The list goes on and on.

But wait...

The stress and anxiety of the home buying process will be over and  done with in a few weeks.  Your health, happiness, and entire living experience depend on certain factors of the home. There are a few things worth knowing. 

3 simple practices you didn't think could change your life.

"Pooooooooonh!" , "Pooooooooooonh". That's what I heard when I was visiting my parents sometime back. I remember asking my mother what that strange sound was. 

She calmly responded that it was our neighbor blowing the conch shell in all the rooms in his house. He always does that when he returns from a trip, she continued calmly. I wondered what that would do. I recently found out and am quite excited to share that here

Bear with me for a few moments while I shift gears ....

Now here is something interesting that I learned as  part of my journey of self discovery about spaces and energy. 
We humans receive life giving energy from the earth grid. We also receive the vibrations, sounds and energies from the sun and planetary bodies. These energies sort of recharge our life force.